7 Quick Takes – Vol. 16

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Check it out! I took a while to write this post about Mass behavior because I’ve been seeing some not-so-great stuff going on at my local churches. I learned a lot through the research, and want to definitely continue covering different parts of the Mass. It’s fun learning so much while writing about something I care so much about!

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SUMMER WEATHER! California weather is the best. Period. It was 95ish yesterday, and cooler today – the best part is when there’s a breeze during the day and it cools off at night 🙂

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Our local pool will finally be open on weekdays starting tomorrow! I’m looking forward to taking my little sister there when it gets super hot and I’m taking a break from work.

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We’re having pulled pork for dinner tonight! It is seriously better than any restaurant or store-bought version I’ve ever tried. The homemade spice mix with the oh-so-tender pull-apart meat is SO yummy. Here’s the recipe!

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Did you see these cool maps? Check out how people’s pronunciation changes around the country.

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So…..I started Jillian’s 30 Day Shred last Monday. I did it until Friday, and haven’t done it today (or yesterday). It really wasn’t nearly as hard as I thought it would be most days, except day 2. That was hard because I was so sore already. It’s still not easy, but much better, AND it feels GREAT to be working out more. The annoying part is finding the right time to work out so I can shower.

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And now, since I can’t think of much else to write about, enjoy this picture of these precious babies. I need to find someone to babysit for.

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Lord, I am totally worthy

Imagine for a moment that Jesus was walking the earth again. Imagine you were in his very presence – the same room as him. How would you behave?

Would you ignore the fact you were in the presence of God?

Would you chat on your phone?

Would you go about your daily life even though you had this incredible opportunity to see God?

I hope not.

Then why, tell me, do we do these very things?

When I went to Mass at my college this past school year, it was refreshing to be surrounded by young people who respectfully attended on a regular basis. For the most part, Mass-goers would come on time, act reverently toward Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament, and participate appropriately in Mass. We knelt during the parts I’ve grown up kneeling to (and in one of our chapels, the students regularly forego the kneeler to kneel on the hard ground).

I got used to this.

When I came home for the summer just a few weeks ago, I was shocked (though how can I really be?) to see the lack of this behavior in my own home church. Let me re-state that. My home church is not terrible. It’s actually one of the best I’ve been to. We go to a different (closer) church for Mass during the week, which, on the other hand, is scary. Let me elaborate.

At my home church, we have perpetual adoration. That means whenever Mass is not going on, the Blessed Sacrament is exposed (ie. God is visibly present). He is exposed until a few minutes before Mass when the curtains are drawn. When people came in for Sunday Mass a couple weeks ago, I was struck by the number of people who did not genuflect before entering their pews. I know I shouldn’t really be noticing this while praying before Mass starts, but it was hard to ignore the fact that so few people genuflected. It’s something I was always taught to do.

At the church we go to during the week (which is much closer to home), it is sad to write down everything we’ve seen:

  • The walls are clear glass windows surrounding the circular building which has cushioned chairs instead of traditional pews
  • No kneelers
  • Closed tabernacle shoved to the side
  • The Blood of Christ is consecrated IN the glass pitcher (for lack of better word) and THEN poured into separate glasses. The glass pitcher – which has contained the sacred species – is then casually handed down an assembly line of lay women.
  • After consecration, the priest steps back as lay women come up on the altar to divide the Eucharist and Blood of Christ into the respective containers. He stands back watching as this is done.
  • One priest in particular likes to applaud the choir after Mass
  • The same priest likes to sing “Happy Birthday” to anyone who’s celebrating before giving the final blessing

Now, no one is perfect. We are all far from the ideal person we’re called to become. But these are serious issues we either do not care to address, are ignorant of, or willfully ignore. It’s time that came to an end.

Because I’ve grown up in a family that attends conservative Masses, I am used to what I would call “proper” Mass behavior. But does that make it right? Even though it’s what I prefer, I decided to research it for myself to see what the Church itself says.

Before reading on, please note that CCC stand for the Catechism of the Catholic Church, and GIRM stands for the General Instruction of the Roman Missal. Both are authoritative texts of the Catholic Church.

Genuflecting & Bowing

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In my home church, I’ve noticed how many people neglect to genuflect before entering their pews, so today I decided to count. Of the people I observed entering their pews today, 33 did not genuflect and 5 did genuflect. None bowed. I was taken aback by these numbers, and rather shocked that roughly 1/8 of the people I observed paid Jesus any sign of respect before entering their pew.

CCC says:

1378 -“In the liturgy of the Mass we express our faith in the real presence of Christ under the species of bread and wine by, among other ways, genuflecting or bowing deeply as a sign of adoration of the Lord.”

GIRM says:

“274. A genuflection, made by bending the right knee to the ground, signifies adoration, and therefore it is reserved for the Most Blessed Sacrament, as well as for the Holy Cross from the solemn adoration during the liturgical celebration on Good Friday until the beginning of the Easter Vigil.

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[A]ll who pass before the Most Blessed Sacrament genuflect, unless they are moving in procession.

Ministers carrying the processional cross or candles bow their heads instead of genuflecting.

275. A bow signifies reverence and honor shown to the persons themselves or to the signs that represent them. There are two kinds of bow: a bow of the head and a bow of the body.

a) A bow of the head is made when the three Divine Persons are named together and at the names of Jesus, of the Blessed Virgin Mary, and of the Saint in whose honor Mass is being celebrated.

b) A bow of the body, that is to say, a profound bow, is made to the altar; during the prayers Munda cor meum (Cleanse my heart) and In spiritu humilitatis (With humble spirit); in the Creed at the words et incarnatus est (and by the Holy Spirit . . . and became man); in the Roman Canon at the Supplices te rogamus (In humble prayer we ask you, almighty God). The same kind of bow is made by the Deacon when he asks for a blessing before the proclamation of the Gospel. In addition, the Priest bows slightly as he pronounces the words of the Lord at the Consecration.”

Kneeling

Something that has always been different from church to church is when people kneel. I was taught to kneel during consecration, and then right before the “Lord I am not worthy….” line. It’s always seemed weird to me when people don’t kneel then – it’s almost like saying “Lord, I am totally worthy that you should enter under my roof. So yeah, what’s the big deal?” But it is a big deal. If we truly believe we are receiving Jesus in the Eucharist, shouldn’t we be in the most reverent position possible? Shouldn’t we be falling to our knees as Jesus becomes physically present before us?

“Lord, I am not worthy that you should enter under my roof, but only say the word, and my soul shall be healed.”

GIRM says:

42. “A common bodily posture, to be observed by all those taking part, is a sign of the unity of the members of the Christian community gathered together for the Sacred Liturgy, for it expresses the intentions and spiritual attitude of the participants and also fosters them.”

43. “In the Dioceses of the United States of America, they should kneel beginning after the singing or recitation of the Sanctus (Holy, Holy, Holy) until after the Amen of the Eucharistic Prayer, except when prevented on occasion by ill health, or for reasons of lack of space, of the large number of people present, or for another reasonable cause. However, those who do not kneel ought to make a profound bow when the Priest genuflects after the Consecration. The faithful kneel after the Agnus Dei (Lamb of God) unless the Diocesan Bishop determines otherwise.”

Reception of the Eucharist

From the day I received my first communion, I have always received on the tongue (except for once or twice when the EMHC was rather confused when I was little and didn’t hold my hands properly). It’s always made sense to me, because if this is really God (which is kind of the gist of Catholicism) how could I dare to touch him? In the Bible, people wouldn’t dare to touch the hem of his robe or unlace his sandals, so how are we worthy to touch his very body?

CCC says:

1382 – “To receive communion is to receive Christ himself who has offered himself for us.”

GIRM says:

160 – “When receiving Holy Communion, the communicant bows his or her head before the Sacrament as a gesture of reverence and receives the Body of the Lord from the minister.”

161 – “If Communion is given only under the species of bread, the Priest raises the host slightly and shows it to each, saying, The Body of Christ. The communicant replies, Amen, and receives the Sacrament either on the tongue or, where this is allowed, in the hand, the choice lying with the communicant. As soon as the communicant receives the host, he or she consumes the whole of it.”

Contrary to popular belief, Vatican II did not approve the reception of the Eucharist in the hand. Actually, it affirmed the long-held tradition of it being received on the tongue, with the wide majority of bishops in agreement. Here’s what was stated in Memoriale Domini in 1969:

“This method [on the tongue] of distributing Holy Communion must be retained, taking the present situation of the Church in the entire world into account, not merely because it has many centuries of tradition behind it, but especially because it expresses the faithful’s reverence for the Eucharist. The custom does not detract in any way from the personal dignity of those who approach this great sacrament: it is part of that preparation that is needed for the most fruitful reception of the Body of the Lord.

This reverence shows that it is not a sharing in ‘ordinary bread and wine’ that is involved, but in the Body and Blood of the Lord . . .

Further, the practice which must be considered traditional ensures, more effectively, that holy communion is distributed with the proper respect, decorum and dignity. It removes the danger of profanation of the sacred species . . .”

As Catholics, we believe that bread and wine are transformed into Christ’s body and blood during the Mass, but it seems to me that we’re quite close to forgetting this. I don’t know your heart. I don’t know where you are in your faith journey. But I do know that no matter what, God deserves nothing less than our unbridled love and respect. We are not capable of repaying Jesus for his death on the cross. But don’t we owe him a little respect when we visit him in his house?

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Mother Teresa is a Beast

If there ever was someone who was truly beast at something, Mother Teresa would come up as the beast of peace and awesomeness. Her quotes give us so much insight, and show us we all have so much to learn. In an effort to bring a little inspiration to your day, enjoy some of my favorites:

Let’s get out there and change the world, people. Like Mother Teresa always said, it starts at home.

7 Quick Takes – Vol. 15

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Summer is here…finally! For the first time in a LONG time, it was over 90 degrees yesterday. Whoohoo! I’m loving the weather, sweat and all 🙂

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Is college really worth it? I read this article recently which basically said that degrees are not always necessary and college is not really worth the debt you get into. Well, here’s a thought: you don’t have to get into the $150,000 debt they estimated. I honestly don’t understand how someone could go into college knowing they would have to take out that much money. That is not an option for me. I am proud of the fact that I opened my local bank account when I was 12, and have been working hard to earn money ever since then. I have been blessed with job opportunities, and am thankful to be able to pay for the majority of my college education with some loans (though MUCH less than what they estimated). It’s taken a lot of work on my part, but HELLO? It’s called responsibility. How do people end college with that much debt? I don’t know. That’s just not even something I would consider doing. This deserves an entire post of its own, so I’ll just stop now 🙂

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Just finished my first book of the summer! The Four Signs of a Dynamic Catholic is officially done, and next on my list is Rediscovering Catholicism (which just came in the mail, yay!). The Four Signs book is FABULOUS, and I highly recommend it to absolutely everyone on earth that is literate. And if you’re not literate, have someone read it to you. Wait, you wouldn’t be reading this if you’re not literate. Darn. Well, literate person, go find an illiterate person to read it to! Seriously, it is so good. I’m so excited to write an On My Bookshelf review of it this week.

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Not entirely accurate, but you get the point

My friend Heather started up an awesome Tumblr blog on Modesty recently, which is rather awesome. It’s called Mod Gurl. She posts cute modest clothes, encouraging articles, pictures and quotes, so check it out! Here is the site, here is its Pinterest, and here is its Facebook page. Go modesty!

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I’m starting Jillian Michael’s 30 Day Shred with one of my older sisters tomorrow! Here’s a video of the level one workout (you do 3 levels, each for 10 days). It doesn’t look as deathly hard as I thought it might be, but we’ll see what I think after doing it tomorrow.

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Enjoy a laugh at the expense of this hilarious bad lip reading video. I don’t know who in the world has time to do these things, but they are hilarious!

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It’s good to be back at work and feeling constructive. There have always been things that are tough about working at pregnancy centers, and those things are still there. But the projects I’m working on will greatly help the places. The work is incredibly important, so it’s good to be a part of it as best I can. I’m also working on counseling training as part of this, so I’ll be able to start sidewalk counseling soon. Whoop! I am SO pumped as I keep planning next school years pro-life activities!

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Life Round-Up Vol. 2

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There have been many interesting pieces making their way across the web recently – my reason for having so many tabs open right now. Here are some interesting articles to check out and help you stay in the loop!

 

african-mother Why Don’t Women in the Developing World Use Contraceptives?

 Why? Because they plain and simple don’t “need” them like Bill and Melinda Gates say they do. I haven’t finished this article, but it outlines how a skewed study tried (unsuccessfully) to prove that women in the developing world need birth control. Not.

Reunited: The baby boy's mother - believed to be a 22-year-old single woman - has been found and is said to be with her baby in hospital

Chinese baby rescued from sewage pipe

What I don’t get about this story is that China violently forces women to have abortions, and actively enforces their one (or two in some places) child policy. This one baby was “accidently” dropped down a sewage pipe after being delivered by his 22 year old single mother who could not afford an abortion. Why were they so concerned about this one little baby if they don’t care about the rest? What made this one worth fighting for?

Raise Your Standards

This awesome article encourages women to raise their standards about guys. Ever heard that quote about how the level of society is measured by its women? I wish I could find it because it fit perfectly here.

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Communion in the hand?

This article talks about how widespread reception of the Eucharist in the hand (which was never approved by the Church BTW) has lead to more abuse. I’ve been thinking about it more recently, and noticing things at the churches I go to in regard to reverence. Definitely a post in the works about this…

How to become an annoying Catholic

Did you hear recently how Pope Francis encouraged us to “be annoying when things are too quiet in the Church”? This article gives you eight easy ways to become just that!

Former abortion clinic workers

These two women worked at a Delaware Planned Parenthood where many emergencies have taken place recently. They talk about the “meat-market style assembly line” [source] sort of environment it was (and one of them was employed for only 27 days). Are we surprised? See video here.

Autopsy confirms Jennifer Morbelli died because of her abortion

Remember hearing about this woman? She was 33 weeks pregnant and went to have an abortion because her daughter was diagnosed with some “abnormality”. She later died because of the botched abortion after being abandoned by LeRoy Carhart, her abortionist. He has not been cleared of responsibility, but it seems as if he may not be charged.

We are not the future of the pro-life movement. We ARE the pro-life movement!

Check out this awesome new video showing that we ARE the pro-life movement. Some footage was taken at the Canadian March for Life which was 90% youth. Oh yeah!